Death is a call to LOVE

Death, deathing, grief and grieving are calls to Love, calls for Love, calls of Love.

We often confuse love with the desire to make nice for fear of upsetting others with what is – When fear leads the way, we often have blinders on that control the path ahead. Understandably! Death, deathing, grief and grieving are incredibly challenging. We instinctively want to avoid and effectively deny pain, confusion, constant burden, and change we did not ask for. Making nice tries to lighten what is, rather than saddling up with the body of grief.

My role is to gently offer options that exist outside the controls or the way its supposed to be, to hold a listening space when things start to breakdown, knowing that re-setting the compass is part of the path in the final arc-of-life.

Love can hold all the pieces and hope always has as a place there too. Its also my role to assist you in processing the rising and falling of patterns without a betrayal of what is. My days of confusing love and hope with making nice are over.

I can be present with you and the fears, commitments, controls, and other moving pieces of the love story.